Emotions... Too Volatile for even the best?

[Larxene]

I'm really going to hurt you for editing my post like that

[Axiom_Nor]

Dude, this kinda stuff happened to me all the time.

 

1: Fire your phschiatrist. they suck.

2: Talk to her.

3: If she rejects you, do not go all emo on us.

4: If you go out, take it at her pace.

[Silencerleader]

Dude' date=' this kinda stuff happened to me all the time.

 

1: Fire your phschiatrist. they suck.

2: Talk to her.

3: If she rejects you, do not go all emo on us.

4: If you go out, take it at her pace.

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*stands and claps*

[bury the year]

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Aww that's sweet. I iz crying.

Well' date=' we're in love baby.

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I thought she liked me!

Um...emotions...are bad...

 

I never said that! Take it down, fool!

 

WTH are you talking about :?

 

*argh* Don't take advantage of the poor delete button like that...

 

NOTE: I didn't double-post: Silencer posted in between my posts, then deleted his.

[Mr. Best Male 2008]

For the last time' date=' I'm not your girlfriend >_>

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Will you be mah girlfriend? =D

 

Icy.

 

SHOOT HER.

 

 

I mean.

 

Move on?

[Death Metal]

For the last time' date=' I'm not your girlfriend >_>

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Will you be mah girlfriend? =D

 

Icy.

 

SHOOT HER.

 

 

I mean.

 

Move on?

 

But I though you loved me. Traitor.

[Sander]

Let me get this straight, you want to be with her, but yet, you are not in love with her?

 

If so, just do this thing: MOVE THE funk ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Meet other people, hang out with family/friends, funking do something and forget about her >.<

 

You know, I might go all berserk with rage too, damn Aunt of mine, pissing me of 24/7 >.<

[Huntar!]

Girls are the source of pain, distress, and emotional torture, I say, we all go GAY! [j.k j.k]

 

My Ex still drives me nuts sometimes. It makes me almost cry..

 

No it hasn't happened to me, I feel your pain Icyman, its ok...

 

Emotions are not too volatile for the best. ^^

[tonisanoob]

after a string of failed relationships

 

ive reilised tht girls really only cause trouble

 

(idk what u girls thign you really are the scource of all mental pain)

 

anyhoo break ups dnt really bother me now, i gues im used to them and i nko tht i dnt NEED girl as much as my body wants one

 

my first love holly

i chased her for ages all i ever did was think about her

and it WAS NOT WORTH IT

plz note this EVERY and i mean every girl is the same

so do not chase her

 

if there is one persons advice you liten to its mine and idc what mental illness you have

 

ther eis a reason behind it all

 

take dyslexia for example, LAAAAAAAAZAYYYYYYYYY

your w/e the f*** you have, STUBBORN

 

so get of your attentiaon seekign high hourse, and find somone else

 

what coudl she have possibly done tht any other girl cant do

 

hold your hand?

cuddle you?

kiss you

love you

f*** you

 

what what SERIOUSLT WHAT

 

okay ask yourself all this and decide is what im dooign to myself worth it

 

if you do this i will give you all my reps everyday for a week

[Guest JoshIcy]

O.K. get this because it seems vague to ya'll.

 

Yes I do love her, and want to be with her. But at the same time to keep my sanity I play Devils Advocate because, I dont wanna ruin what close friendship we already have. But my mind wants her, body says dont take the risk.. Which is what causes the gag reflex -.-"...

 

And Tonis, despite you not caring. I "apparently" have a very mild case of almost every known psychological disorder o_0.. Weird doctors..

 

Your last question. She has done naught as we have just been friends =/, yet my mind and heart wants more. My body says don't. So don't think I ain't trying to get this solved and out of my system...

[Guest KAJN]

Yeah I know what you mean. Well you could always tell her but then she may reject it. Even though, you should. Really, I mean she may like you or something. You don't want an idiot to get her or something. Sometimes these things happen to me. I just face it and just go say "Hi" Speak etc. Well people don't realize it only when it hit them in the face that they must really go and do it for their own good. That's what you have to do. In most cosplays these things get to me I'm like death kid when he ripped one of the death notes, I was really panicking, then I went and did what I had to do. Anyway Just do the right thing, even if you get scared, face it go to her, say something. That's all I have to say. The rest I don;t like speaking about it XD [changed]

[tonisanoob]

o_O

 

oh dear god

[Guest KAJN]

Your point is? My friend with the kissing avatar.

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yet my mind and heart wants more. My body says don't.

 

hmm odd usually it the opposite but hey what do i know right....me without feeling

[Abstract [Atrocity]]

Sure, my friend (in old avatar) sparks emotions in me I can't begin to identify.

I'm scared for her, because of what she's doing (because of her god-awful son of a boyfriend little unsavory lustball).

I'm sorta in love with her, because she's one of the nicest, most beautiful, artistic, and inspiring girls at my school. Back in the day, I thought I had a chance, but she's been with her current love interest since New Years.

I'm in a barely controllable fit of rage i couldn't begin to describe, burning me from the inside, keeping me up at night, filling my mind with uneeded horrors I keep thinking to be real. You know what? They probably are.

 

I mask all this with a warm smile, humorous attitude, and carefree style so I don't wreck someone else's day, or maybe even their life.

 

I think my friend knows of these emotions, i can tell, she's been subtley avoiding me the last couple of days. Seems whenever I'm around, she says hi and all, kinda acting like everything's fine. A couple minutes of this and she's off to find her BF. Sometimes she comes back, but like today, they went to have a peaceful lunch out near the gym.

With his lustful, Devil may care atitude and worldly needs, and her fear of desolation, she stays with him, even if it means doing things wrong in my, and Gods eyes.

 

I could write for days and not be finished here.

I should just keep holding it in.

But someday, I might snap in a psychotic blaze and lash out at her & her BF, not with physical violence but with words, letting all of my unspoken ideas, bottled up rage and pleas of reasoning flood out and build in her, what was built in me.

 

They may be only human...

But I'm just, an Atrocity.

 

(If you want a less...vague, desciption, PM me)

[Static]

Sorry to say, but teen love isn't real.

 

You could like, vent it. The internet, shouting at inanimate objects, or killing people are all valid ways to approach the problem.

 

OR, so far, from the little of this thread I read, take Claire's original advice and just tell her.

[Guest JoshIcy]

Teen love?... Since when did I specify age?

I dont see people as age in this sense, and if I do its to be skeptical but I wont dismiss it and likely enjoy when people just share reasoning and accept it.

 

Loosing contact her is worst than loosing contact with my sister or member of my family, which in Hawaii you learn means EVERYTHING to you. And I am no exception to this trait.

 

And Static, for the love of logic... Learn some balance ya? I even see some emotion in Tea, despite his rather heartless posts. [i soo wanna learn how far you carry this xD]...

[Static]

1. Fact of life, people under 18 generally do not fall in "real love." Generally, people have to be broken before they really understand what "Real Love" really is to them, and whether or not they have it for specific persons or not.

 

2. From the first part, it seems you have at least some help with that. Keep that up, eventually, your hormones will calm down, and with that, so will your active drive and desire to be with her.

 

3. I am not emotionless, I am a happy and content person. I am just heartless, nihilistic rather, because I do not see moral or ethical perspective as objective or relevant, and thus come across as a heartless prick.

[Guest JoshIcy]

1) Thus is why I play Devils Advocate with myself, to help understand it more. And atm, no matter what technique it is saying otherwise. Albeit friend love or real love...

 

2) At its heart it is not hormones, its a personality trait that few people have. But yeah, before I go into that I'll stop here.

 

3) Sadly thats a contradiction in itself, but it explains a lot. Thanks ^_^

[Static]

1) Thus is why I play Devils Advocate with myself' date=' to help understand it more. And atm, no matter what technique it is saying otherwise. Albeit friend love or real love...

 

2) At its heart it is not hormones, its a personality trait that few people have. But yeah, before I go into that I'll stop here.

 

3) Sadly thats a contradiction in itself, but it explains a lot. Thanks ^_^

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1. You really should just accept that if you're not going to ask her out, that you're going to be broken, and either be ready to accept being broken with no regrets, or act on your balls and let her know whats good (Unlike most guys, I am adding no sexual implication to that phrase, it means what it should mean contextually, ask her out or talk to her.)

 

2. All persons, especially males, experience a large rise in the strength of emotions during puberty. Trust me when I say it will cool off quite a bit when that bit of your life is over, regardless of how emotional you are. Emotions are based on chemical balances in your body, and hormones disrupt the normal balance, its fact, and there is no reason for you to argue this point with me, just accept that when puberty closes for you, you will be less emotional than you were during puberty. By how much, I am not to be the judge.

 

3. I'm a kind hearted prick. You've never met someone like that before?

[「tea.leaf」]

Emotional breakdown over other human being = Epic fail [/thread]

 

Sorry, I'm a cold-hearted jabroni.

[Guest JoshIcy]

1) Thus is why I play Devils Advocate with myself' date=' to help understand it more. And atm, no matter what technique it is saying otherwise. Albeit friend love or real love...

 

2) At its heart it is not hormones, its a personality trait that few people have. But yeah, before I go into that I'll stop here.

 

3) Sadly thats a contradiction in itself, but it explains a lot. Thanks ^_^

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1. You really should just accept that if you're not going to ask her out, that you're going to be broken, and either be ready to accept being broken with no regrets, or act on your balls and let her know whats good (Unlike most guys, I am adding no sexual implication to that phrase, it means what it should mean contextually, ask her out or talk to her.)

 

2. All persons, especially males, experience a large rise in the strength of emotions during puberty. Trust me when I say it will cool off quite a bit when that bit of your life is over, regardless of how emotional you are. Emotions are based on chemical balances in your body, and hormones disrupt the normal balance, its fact, and there is no reason for you to argue this point with me, just accept that when puberty closes for you, you will be less emotional than you were during puberty. By how much, I am not to be the judge.

 

3. I'm a kind hearted prick. You've never met someone like that before?

 

1) Well, I have a year till I can openly talk to her. So one can still hope. No harm in that eh? Unless I move on by then....

 

2) lol, thats a view of Hormones I never expected. And the characteristic I am talking about is a follower one, (if you want more detail please PM or gladly contact me via one of my IM contacts on my profile). How can a follower thrive without his leader to guide him?

 

3) Almost all of us in Hawaii are. But on a different level, and online its hard to read facial expressions and intent so pardon my rather rude assumptions if at all...

 

@Tea: Really? I sorta expected you to post that, but meh.

[「tea.leaf」]

@Tea: Really? I sorta expected you to post that' date=' but meh.

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To me, men who demonstrate any hint of emotional weakness are disgusting. You guys are supposed to be tough, you guys aren't supposed to cry, you guys are supposed to take care of us, not the other way around. I'm pretty sure this is how a lot of other girls think as well. If she heard about this little episode, you could have just seriously destroyed your chances with this girl and any others that might have caught news.

 

Give up on her, and toughen up. She's going to see you as some sort of emotional wreck, and it's not going to better the situation by continuing to pursue her. She doesn't want an emotionally unstable guy to deal with; she wants someone she can go to for her problems. Build up some emotional strength and resilience, get over this girl, and accept this learning experience. You can only hope for better days with other girls.

[Static]

@Tea: Really? I sorta expected you to post that' date=' but meh.

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To me, men who demonstrate any hint of emotional weakness are disgusting. You guys are supposed to be tough, you guys aren't supposed to cry, you guys are supposed to take care of us, not the other way around. I'm pretty sure this is how a lot of other girls think as well. If she heard about this little episode, you could have just seriously destroyed your chances with this girl and any others that might have caught news.

 

Give up on her, and toughen up. She's going to see you as some sort of emotional wreck, and it's not going to better the situation by continuing to pursue her. She doesn't want an emotionally unstable guy to deal with; she wants someone she can go to for her problems. Build up some emotional strength and resilience, get over this girl, and accept this learning experience. You can only hope for better days with other girls.

 

What?

 

Women only need you to APPEAR strong, you don't actually have to BE strong. If I was you, and actually believed that intelligent individuals gave a damn about the superficial bullshit you are spitting, I would have told him to put on the face that most guys put on to get into girls pants. You sir fail to understand what it is that you need to make women think you have what they want, which in laymans terms, is Confidence, and the ability to assert yourself to a situation (keeping a straight face when need be, rocking chill when you're hanging out with her, you know, acting the way you should depending on the situation).

 

That's whats good.

 

To Ice:

 

1. Go for it dude. You really can do it.

 

2. He just finds his own way. Experimenting with mind altering substances will increase your understanding of this matter, of course, when mixed with philosophical discussion with good and intelligent friends.

 

3. Lol. Being Nihilistic, I don't take anything personally, though I am fully aware of what kind of impression I gave off based on how ones response shows how they interpreted my comment/response. I've got no reason to be concerned with how people think of me, because life is just gonna happen the way it is, predetermined fate acting on us and making us think and feel the way we were predetermined to think and feel. Might as well just accept it and move on, right?

 

The underlining of the "You" in the first part is key to getting my message processed by your brain the way I want it to. It will promote confidence in yourself. :D

[Mr. Best Male 2008]

@Tea: Really? I sorta expected you to post that' date=' but meh.

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To me, men who demonstrate any hint of emotional weakness are disgusting. You guys are supposed to be tough, you guys aren't supposed to cry, you guys are supposed to take care of us, not the other way around. I'm pretty sure this is how a lot of other girls think as well. If she heard about this little episode, you could have just seriously destroyed your chances with this girl and any others that might have caught news.

 

Give up on her, and toughen up. She's going to see you as some sort of emotional wreck, and it's not going to better the situation by continuing to pursue her. She doesn't want an emotionally unstable guy to deal with; she wants someone she can go to for her problems. Build up some emotional strength and resilience, get over this girl, and accept this learning experience. You can only hope for better days with other girls.

 

What?

 

Women only need you to APPEAR strong, you don't actually have to BE strong. If I was you, and actually believed that intelligent individuals gave a damn about the superficial bullshit you are spitting, I would have told him to put on the face that most guys put on to get into girls pants. You sir fail to understand what it is that you need to make women think you have what they want, which in laymans terms, is Confidence, and the ability to assert yourself to a situation (keeping a straight face when need be, rocking chill when you're hanging out with her, you know, acting the way you should depending on the situation).

 

That's whats good.

 

To Ice:

 

1. Go for it dude. You really can do it.

 

2. He just finds his own way. Experimenting with mind altering substances will increase your understanding of this matter, of course, when mixed with philosophical discussion with good and intelligent friends.

 

3. Lol. Being Nihilistic, I don't take anything personally, though I am fully aware of what kind of impression I gave off based on how ones response shows how they interpreted my comment/response. I've got no reason to be concerned with how people think of me, because life is just gonna happen the way it is, predetermined fate acting on us and making us think and feel the way we were predetermined to think and feel. Might as well just accept it and move on, right?

 

Get cho azz on MSN foo.