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Johan Liebert

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I love my family. Besides that, love is overrated. I legitimately accepted a girlfriend just to confirm whether this was true for me or not... and I was right. One month later, I broke up with her and didn't care about how she felt in the slightest, cause I know I was happy to be single again.

 

This is so fucked up, I love it. ;_;

And I thought I was a dick.

 

Honestly speaking I'm really weird when it comes to "love" because I'm very much a person who won't throw around terms unless I know indefinitely. And yeah there are always those fucks who say "oh well when you know, you just know, you know?". Yeah go fuck yourself. 

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Things I love.

- Family

- My very few close friends IRL

- My pets

 

I haven't had a girlfriend yet (I had a crush on two girls during grade school; first one ended very badly and I wish I forgot about it already [though it doesn't bother me anymore]; second one was a little better but she moved to California during middle school). That being said, I have some friends who are female (though I don't foresee them to becoming my date and/or future partner in life, yet)

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Honestly speaking I'm really weird when it comes to "love" because I'm very much a person who won't throw around terms unless I know indefinitely. 

I do the same thing....except I feel I take it a bit to the extreme as I'm reluctant to call anybody a "friend".

 

I feel that society has largely devalued what "love" is and I'm glad some people here get it. =D

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My love is generally unrequited. I'm a closeted bisexual, but my preference is for guys, and generally, they are guys like me, with no outward indicators of homosexuality. So this leaves me in a difficult position. It's not as simple as asking a girl out, getting rejected, and moving on. I have one friend in particular, and I can't ask him out, or ask him what he's into, because I won't out myself (not out of fear, I just do not want to), so I can't do anything, except drop hints and subtle flirts, and hope for a miracle, I suppose. I love him from a distance while cherishing his company and even the sight of him. I dream about him and would give my life for his, I adore him that much.

 

But we should lock this thread because my bisexuality is degrading to women.

 

Bro, I feel sorry for you. Its rough having to keep secrets like that. My friend from HS was in a similar predicament(gay but his family was very religious). He eventually  came out to them, they were mad at first but they accepted him.

 

He told me that it isnt really living if you have to hide yourself from the world. Sometimes itll break your heart, but id rather regret the things I did rather than the ones I  didnt do.

 

 

Relationships don’t work the way they do on television and in the movies: Will they, won’t they, and then they finally do and they’re happy forever — gimme a break. Nine out of ten of them end because they weren’t right for each other to begin with, and half the ones that get married get divorced, anyway. And I’m telling you right now, through all this stuff, I have not become a cynic, I haven’t. Yes, I do happen to believe that love is mainly about pushing chocolate-covered candies and, you know, in some cultures, a chicken. You can call me a sucker, I don’t care, ’cause I do…believe in it. Bottom line…is the couples that are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but, the big difference is, they don’t let it take ‘em down.
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Love is difficult for me. My last girlfriend just manipulated me and forced me to say I loved her and honestly she was trying to brainwash and use me. I completely fell for it though since I hadn't had a proper relationship before and assumed that girls would all be genuine and nice people... Some, I can confirm, definitely are not.

There is a girl I've been talking to for a while now and I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too but we don't really live that close to each other. I suppose this is what I get for talking to random girls online. We are planning to go to the same Uni though so I am prepared to wait that long if that's what it takes. We text most of the time and Skype occasionally. I suppose I'm just trying to fill the void that was left when I've loved and lost previously.

I have definitely learned not to spout out "I love you" when you don't know/mean it though. That has made bad things happen.

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Love is difficult for me. My last girlfriend just manipulated me and forced me to say I loved her and honestly she was trying to brainwash and use me. I completely fell for it though since I hadn't had a proper relationship before and assumed that girls would all be genuine and nice people... Some, I can confirm, definitely are not.

There is a girl I've been talking to for a while now and I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too but we don't really live that close to each other. I suppose this is what I get for talking to random girls online. We are planning to go to the same Uni though so I am prepared to wait that long if that's what it takes. We text most of the time and Skype occasionally. I suppose I'm just trying to fill the void that was left when I've loved and lost previously.

I have definitely learned not to spout out "I love you" when you don't know/mean it though. That has made bad things happen.

This is the second time I quoted you in the past couple minutes, I almost feel like I'm stalking you.....

 

Anyway, I'm doing this because this is very close to my own experiance. Except the girl doesn't like me back. I hope it works out for you, sounds like you deserve that. :)

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I remember I my first girlfriend. I dated her for a good year. Turns out she was just manipulating me and using me for one of my friends. Every time I would try to start a conversation, she would always ask about my friend. When my friend came around, she would tune me out completely. I decided to grow a pair after a while because I had enough. She burst into tears and threw stuff at me when I told her it was over. And that by far was the worst relationship I had ,but I'm happy that it's all over.

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I have been in 3 relationships (I know I'm such a stud) the last of which ended a few weeks ago. I never loved any of them. I had feelings for them, yes, but not love. There is a girl I used to love (and still do, just not in the same way) but we never got together. Looking back, I was a loser then. I suppose the real question is whether or not you are willing to be a loser for somebody else.

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