Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 there is a girl in my class that i kinda have a crush on' date='but i am too afraid to tell her what i think of her,i just think that i am afraid of getting rejected,and the irony in all of that is,i can help anyone with their own love problems,but i can't even have the courage to ask a girl out.i am such a looser.[/quote'] Dont feel like that. I used to be like that. "Im a loser" "But what if?"Dont be afraid just tell her how you feel. Look back at page 17 of this thread. See that convesation I had with Clariex? She raised my courage. (Well her advice) Just follow that advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalluW Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 ^same here, i know WHAT to do, i just can't DO it, y'know?anyway, don't take it as a sign that you are a loser, cuz trust me, you are not alone in that situationmy only advice is to take your own advice! if you know what to do, then you should at least TRY to do it right?i mean, the worst that could happen is she says no, and that means that she is not right for you. it may hurt for a while if you do get rejected, but it will passand also, what if she says yes?... ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 At leat try to tell her AZERAT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalluW Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 yea, i mean, look at what P_W_H didhe was nervous about asking the girl he like, but he sucked up his nerves and asked her, and she said yes!i mean, wouldn't you like that ot happen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Try it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Who needs a girlfriend when you got card games? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 basicly we need love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 The fun - and yet, not fun - thing behind my story is that I was going to ask my crush if she wanted to be with me, but since I'm such a coward, I didn't. Instead, I just drifted off. And then, my current gf caught me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 my mom thinks my bf is a psycho ¬_¬ apparently, she thinks ive been making a lot of bad desicions and stuffmostly involving my bfhe dropped out of his school, and is going to an online school next yearand my mom thinks hes gonna go on a killing spree or something somedayso i might never really get to see him.... T-T but my mom is like....retarded or something....apparently, if i break up with him, id be allowed to see him(so apparently if i break up with him, hes no longer a psycho) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 2 months ago' date=' I was at school, and this girl asked me out, and I responded with no. So she attacked me with a pencil...She didn't stab me with it, but rather caused some minor lacerations by swiping it at me. So I was suspended, because I was supposedly the "Instigator", and she's expelled for causing me pain by using a pencil...[/quote'] What kind of girl was she? A psycho emo girl...=/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazer Yoshi Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 AWKWARD! I dont believe your BF is a "phycho". If hes nice to you, then be Happy!^^ Dont let your Mom take over your relationship. Too late for me, my mom wont leave me alone!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 my mom thinks my bf is a psycho ¬_¬ apparently' date=' she thinks ive been making a lot of bad desicions and stuffmostly involving my bfhe dropped out of his school, and is going to an online school next yearand my mom thinks hes gonna go on a killing spree or something somedayso i might never really get to see him.... T-T but my mom is like....retarded or something....apparently, if i break up with him, id be allowed to see him(so apparently if i break up with him, hes no longer a psycho)[/quote'] ....... Seriously, who is she to control your PRIVATE life, and if she still says that your bf is a so called "psycho", ask her for proof about her statement, so he dropped out from his school, big deal, since he's going to try again >_> Seriously, your mom needs to learn that you cannot control the life of her daughter, that kind of stuff leads to saddness, and that leads to alcohol and drugs and that means you'd die soon, does she really want that to happen? No, I don't think so, and she practically is stopping you from enjoying life >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowferret Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Ah, I miss being young...I remember, when I was in ninth grade, I had a crush on my best friend. We basically tortured each other the whole year, and everyone told us we'd end up married. When i finally got the courage to tell her something, she avoided me for a week...>_>We still talk, even though I moved across the bloody country. For the past two years, there's been only two or three weekends we haven't talked to one another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 my mom thinks my bf is a psycho ¬_¬ apparently' date=' she thinks ive been making a lot of bad desicions and stuffmostly involving my bfhe dropped out of his school, and is going to an online school next yearand my mom thinks hes gonna go on a killing spree or something somedayso i might never really get to see him.... T-T but my mom is like....retarded or something....apparently, if i break up with him, id be allowed to see him(so apparently if i break up with him, hes no longer a psycho)[/quote'] One day, just ask her "Are you trying to wreck my life?" and pray to God she doesn't ground you. From what I've heard so far, he sounds okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 my mom thinks my bf is a psycho ¬_¬ apparently' date=' she thinks ive been making a lot of bad desicions and stuffmostly involving my bfhe dropped out of his school, and is going to an online school next yearand my mom thinks hes gonna go on a killing spree or something somedayso i might never really get to see him.... T-T but my mom is like....retarded or something....apparently, if i break up with him, id be allowed to see him(so apparently if i break up with him, hes no longer a psycho)[/quote'] One day, just ask her "Are you trying to wreck my life?" and pray to God she doesn't ground you. From what I've heard so far, he sounds okay. Yeah, take he's advice Clariex, even if you get grounded, IMO, you shouldn't even give a damn about it and still go out and do what you want to xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Actually, I don't want Clariex to get grounded because of me. Too much guilt. Anyway, just try to make your mom realize how she's complicating your relationship with your boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowferret Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Just think about what your mom says, and tell her exactly what you think. Tell her your side, and tell her his side, and come to a compromise of some sort. In my experience, dealing with parents only takes a bit of talking, especially as you get older. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 For me, it actually gets harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 my mom thinks my bf is a psycho ¬_¬ apparently' date=' she thinks ive been making a lot of bad desicions and stuffmostly involving my bfhe dropped out of his school, and is going to an online school next yearand my mom thinks hes gonna go on a killing spree or something somedayso i might never really get to see him.... T-T but my mom is like....retarded or something....apparently, if i break up with him, id be allowed to see him(so apparently if i break up with him, hes no longer a psycho)[/quote'] Sorry to say this but THAT IS REALLY d*** Why is your mon getting on your private life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 AWKWARD! I dont believe your BF is a "phycho". If hes nice to you' date=' then be Happy!^^ Dont let your Mom take over your relationship. Too late for me, my mom wont leave me alone!![/quote'] he is nice 2 me, and i am happy w/himbut my mom doesnt see that ....... Seriously' date=' who is she to control your PRIVATE life, and if she still says that your bf is a so called [i']"psycho"[/i], ask her for proof about her statement, so he dropped out from his school, big deal, since he's going to try again >_> Seriously, your mom needs to learn that you cannot control the life of her daughter, that kind of stuff leads to saddness, and that leads to alcohol and drugs and that means you'd die soon, does she really want that to happen? No, I don't think so, and she practically is stopping you from enjoying life >_> she says that hes a psycho because hes going 2 an online schooland thats a really dumb excuse 2 call someone psycho and its really hard 4 me 2 enjoy my life if ill never meet my bf.... One day' date=' just ask her "Are you trying to wreck my life?" and pray to God she doesn't ground you. From what I've heard so far, he sounds okay.[/quote'] she would ground me if I did that, and then i wouldnt be able 2 talk 2 my bf at all...T-T Yeah' date=' take he's advice Clariex, even if you get grounded, IMO, you shouldn't even give a damn about it and still go out and do what you want to xD[/quote'] i'm pretty sure i said this already, but ill say it againi dont live near my bfin fact, we've never meti met him online, but hes such a nice guyive talked 2 him on the phone, so i no hes not some 50 yr old guy trying 2 rape me or anythingand if i was grounded, i couldnt talk 2 him at all Actually' date=' I don't want Clariex to get grounded because of me. Too much guilt. Anyway, just try to make your mom realize how she's complicating your relationship with your boyfriend.[/quote'] thats her whole point....shes trying 2 make my relationship complicated Just think about what your mom says' date=' and tell her exactly what you think. Tell her your side, and tell her his side, and come to a compromise of some sort. In my experience, dealing with parents only takes a bit of talking, especially as you get older.[/quote'] ive tried compromising w/herwhen shes makes up her mind, i cant change it Sorry to say this but THAT IS REALLY d*** Why is your mon getting on your private life? cause shes a total jabroni who has nothing better 2 do than mess w/my life(plez excuse my language) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Wow, your mom reminds me of the mom of someone who goes to my school. When she was at the library, she just happened to see her boyfriend there, and when her mom came to pick her up, she wasn't to happy to see the boy there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Just an offtopic question to PWH: What word did you try to censor with d***? Dumb? Back on topic: Your mother needs to understand that she can't force you to be without your love. If my parents would do that to me, I... I don't know how I would react, but I'm certainly not just going to sit there. It's good that you've tried to compromise with your mom, but have you tried letting your bf talk to her? Explain everything? Or is she too stubborn for that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 shes way 2 stubborn 4 that...she wouldnt talk 2 him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazer Yoshi Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Not dumb, but I think it's DI**(excuse me for the language). Still, Claries Mom shouldnt be overeacting. Its a relationship, and I you guys get a really long relationship, your Mom should only be proud for you. If shes mad, leave her when you are 18. Still talk to her, but dont live with/near her. She needs to take a chill pill and get some air. Get away from nail polish and help your daughter with her boyfriend! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Meh. Anything that has the slightest chance of helping should be tried, unless it has a higher chance of making it worse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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