Sander Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 IMO, the parent thing I suggested is the most possible thing to work (but if your mother still doesn't listen then -_-), go to some of your friends house, call your bf there, and ask him if he's parents could meet with your mother...that's all I have atm >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 *le big fat SIGH* Today was my last day of High School. Yup' date=' I graduate next Thursday. And that basically means that my shot at my crush is all but over. As the year comes to an end, my chance goes with it, basically. ._. I feel, kinda depressed. And I probably won't get the chance tomorrow. I waited too long and was too cowardly to say anything ;-;[/quote'] I know how you feel dude. In 2nd grade this girl I liked had friends that asked me if I liked her. I was too stupid to realize that she liked me -.-, then after 2nd grade she moved away. It made me feel bad for 3 years. Then I met another girl I liked, and we're still together (since 5th grade). The moral is, there's more than 1 person out there for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zexaeon Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Thanks for that. Yup, I'm fully aware of the whole "Other fish in the sea" concept, but at this moment in time, it's harder to care about it, ya know? I'm sure you probably get where I'm coming from. ^^ Thanks anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Thanks for that. Yup' date=' I'm fully aware of the whole "Other fish in the sea" concept, but at this moment in time, it's harder to care about it, ya know? I'm sure you probably get where I'm coming from. ^^ Thanks anyway.[/quote']Yeah, it could take anywhere from hours, to days, to years to get over it. But hey, there's always time. Do you know any stores that she visits often? If so you could go there, and if she happens to be there, you could make small talk. This could apply to anywhere that she might go often :D. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zexaeon Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Unfortunately, no. He is someone I know from school...and that's about it. ^^ Just thought I'd clear that gender thing up. But yeah, I don't really know anywhere he frequents. I know he likes racing cars, but there has gotta be a bunch of places where you can go to do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Unfortunately' date=' no. [b']He[/b] is someone I know from school...and that's about it. ^^ Just thought I'd clear that gender thing up. But yeah, I don't really know anywhere he frequents. I know he likes racing cars, but there has gotta be a bunch of places where you can go to do that. Okay...maybe you should see if there are any local race tracks and go there (not in a creepy stalkey way) but just to watch a race. And if you see him, introduce yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zexaeon Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 xD I wouldn't need to introduce myself, I DO know him. Just not too personally. And I guess I could do that, it's just...I'd be visiting a lot of random race tracks. Plus, I don't even know when he goes, so yeah. Bit of a problem. But you're being very helpful, and I thank you for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 xD I wouldn't need to introduce myself' date=' I DO know him. Just not too personally. And I guess I could do that, it's just...I'd be visiting a lot of random race tracks. Plus, I don't even know when he goes, so yeah. Bit of a problem. But you're being very helpful, and I thank you for that.[/quote'] No problem, I try my best to help (most of the time) Oh yeah, and by introduce yourself I couldnt think of the word "greet" (total brainfart) I figured that you already knew him. I just meant that you could greet him...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarbleZone Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Clariex: reading your posts' date='something crossed my mind. When you say you'll "never see your bf", do you mean you're having an online relationship and never saw your boyfriend in real life? :/[/quote'] yes, we rive never met himbut i no that he isnt some 50 yr old rapist or anything, cause ive tlaked 2 him on the phone and ive seen what he looks likeand i was gonna meet him in a few weeks, but now i might not cause of my mom How people fall in love through the internet is beyond me... Online relationships is something I'll never understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umbra Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 I've been talking to my gf over msn for a while now, and we just set up our first date. We're going to the movies, but that's all I'll tell you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Ahh, keeping it secret are we Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel of destiny Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Everybody thank you on,your advices,this is what happenedToday i wanted to ask the girl i liked if she wanted to go on a date with me,but the problem was that there was always someone,either her friends or my friends,well i still have next week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 Good luck AZERAT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 well, i now have 2 pretend that me and my bf broke up.... T-Tits the only way my mom will ever leave me alone about him....but if another guy i no asks me out, my mom would be really suspicious if i said noso i have no idea what im supposed 2 do....can someone plez help me?.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted June 13, 2008 Report Share Posted June 13, 2008 well' date=' i now have 2 pretend that me and my bf broke up.... T-Tits the only way my mom will ever leave me alone about him....but if another guy i no asks me out, my mom would be really suspicious if i said noso i have no idea what im supposed 2 do....can someone plez help me?....[/quote'] I'll tell you this much, you're in a pretty impoosible situation. I just can't seem to come up with a possible way to connect you with your love... sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark One Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 I have to say, I'm normally quite embarrassed by the quality of the average member of YCM. But my respect has been raised. Several people have openly admitted to being Gay or Bisexual, and they have not been made fun of/generally pounded on for it. That could never happen at my school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zexaeon Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 ^^ It's a sign that the world is slowly making a turn for the better. Still no where near where we want to be, but things are getting better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 Clariex, are you really pretending that you and your bf are broken up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 yeah, we rits prolly the only way ill ever be able 2 see him but theres this other guy i no that obviously likes me, and since im pretending me and my bf broke up, hes prolly gonna ask me out...and i dont no what 2 do, cause he'll prolly tell my mom if i say me and my bf r still together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ultimate Ryan Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 good luck clariex, you could say that you are still in denial/need time to get over it ^_^ hope i help!-Ulti-Rya - U_R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Careless Whisper Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 ...For once, Clariex, I am ashamed of what you are doing. You love your BF, your mother should see that. If she doesn't see that, then she is blind from the world. You shouldn't pretend to be broken up, you should keep the truth alive, and that truth will burn like a talisman in your heart for the hope that you will see him someday. Even if it won't be for a while, you should still know that you must take great chances for the ones you care about. (-quoted from Eight Below) Because the one you truly love, is for you to decide, and only you. Tell your mother the truth, if she hates you, then she is a horrible parent who can't get the fact that her daughter has the free will to date who ever she wants and shouldn't be stopped by long distances. Pretending to be Broken Up will eventually end up in a real break up. trust me, I have seen it happen too many times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 well, we'll be "broken up" 4 about.....4 yrs. until i get out of high school lolxim going 2 europe 4 my high school graduation party 4 a few weeks, and im taking my bfthatll prolly be the first time ill ever get 2 be alone w/him and i dont think that guy would wait 4 yrs.>_><_< anyway, i have 2 pretend we're broken upits the only way i can talk 2 himmy mom threatened 2 take my phone, my computer, anything that would allow me 2 keep in contact w/himand not being able 2 talk 2 him at all, would be more than i could deal with.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ultimate Ryan Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 hmm, that stinks, give me a few mnutes I'm usually great with this kinda stuff... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phantom Roxas Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 I know that it's the only way for you to talk to your bf, but I'm sure your mom will find out somehow. Hopefully she doesn't catch you on this thread. Try to face your mom head on and prove how much you love your bf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 she doesnt care whether or not i luv himshe thinks hes a psycho, and doesnt care what i thinkshe thinks i need mental help>_><_<shes making me see a psychiatrist in a few days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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