Aix Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 Discuss your own self-confidence and what you think of confidence. How important is confidence? How much is over-confidence? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutant Monster RAEG-HAPYP Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I have very little to no confidence. As for confidence itself...Well, it can be good and can be bad. Depending on the situation, that is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 My confidence is almost completely based in Bree. Then I have some confidence of card design (such important, much wow), but Koko blows me out of the water in that regard. Trying to get confident in writing (packing can't end soon enough so that I can continue to write qq), but that's a ways away. That. Said, by forcing myself to walk with my chin held up when I was younger, as opposed to looking down all the times, did help my esteem and outlook a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dementuo Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I have a goddess complex so honestly my self confidence is through the roof. And I'm probably better than you all. Just saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CLG Klavier Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 My self-confidence used to be totally nonexistant. Then I stopped caring at what people say about me and it's at 105% at this moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kazooie Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I have a complete lack of self-confidence and will until the end of time. I am a waste of space who does nothing and contributes even less. My time is worth nothing, and neither is my company in the end, I'm honestly luck to even be alive at this point, and part of my wonders how little would have changed if I wasn't. It's a little sad, but honestly, you learn to adjust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 Confidence is good, to some extent. There is a difference though, between confidence and narcissism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddamnit names are a pain Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I like to say I don't care about what others think of me, and for the large part, I do. However, some things still just…shake me, if that makes sense. I don't have much confidence myself, but I have far more confidence in me than I put in other people, haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aerion Brightflame Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 It fluctuates. Depending on my mood really. Tends to fluctuate between God Complex, and pathetic wreck whose trying his hardest not to break down in a dark corner. I'm definitely more confident now than when I was younger, or even a couple of months ago depending on who you ask. Admittedly my confidence got the usual boost that being in a relationship gives, but still. In the end it's all about finding the right amount of confidence for you. And being able to get it, even from the smallest things in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brinolovania Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I guess I am pretty confident, if only because I'm actually really fucking arrogant. I do lose confidence in myself sometimes if things go badly, but then I get it back just as quickly so...going pretty well, I'd say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spinny Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 I have anxiety issues, am chlostrophobic, and take what other people think about me really seriously because I'm a really thin-skinned person so to speak. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cool Girl Posted January 27, 2015 Report Share Posted January 27, 2015 Sometimes, I lack self-confidence because of my depression or because I'm having a bad day. Confidence can be good and bad, like, you can't be too confident nor should you lack confidence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Confidence is knowing that you aren't perfect but not letting that stop you from trying your best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I am fairly sure a lot of you know how my confidence is... Doesn't really exist. Honestly I don't know why but when I start getting confident I start to feel bad about it for some reason. Though that's rare anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shradow Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I'm both confident and shy, if that makes sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I don't look back at my mistakes. They happen and I can't fucking change them now, so the effect happens. I am not going to soak up regret or feel bad about, just learn from it and move to become better. As Night said, we're not perfect, but I can do my best to become as close to it as possible. Just by that, I am pretty fucking awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shradow Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I don't look back at my mistakes. They happen and I can't fucking change them now, so the effect happens. I am not going to soak up regret or feel bad about, just learn from it and move to become better. I completely understand, I'm the same way. It causes problems sometimes, though, because for some reason my parents cannot fathom the idea of that thought process. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I completely understand, I'm the same way. It causes problems sometimes, though, because for some reason my parents cannot fathom the idea of that thought process. It is simple. You take responsibility for what you have done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thar Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 Self-esteem? Yes. Motivation? Fuck no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I kinda have confidence since I know I have assets to be proud of, but I'm overly critical of myself, so it gets smothered under perpetual doubt. It's fragile to the point where it'll absolutely soar if I have a couple of boosts in a row, but completely fall apart if something shatters it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cin Posted January 28, 2015 Report Share Posted January 28, 2015 I still don't really like talking to new people (apart from customers at work, because it usually results in me helping them which makes me feel better). Before I started volunteering in '08 I was terrible, I hated talking to anyone and was not very confident outside of a place I'd gotten used to. Still hate change, but not as much as before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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